Dear readers,
Have you tried to change someone, thinking that they could be better off had they improved on their character and attitude? It's a wrong way you are going through, it will definitely NOT work, I am telling you. Perhaps we have to change ourselves instead. And mind you, still they will not change!
Recently, fate has brought me to the knowledge of this book, "How Not To Marry The Wrong Guy: A Guide For Avoiding The Biggest Mistake Of Your Life" by Anne Milford and Jennifer Gauvain. One of the reasons people walk down the aisle despite their cold feet jittering signal is "they hope their relationship will improve after the wedding".
Come to think of it, no one can change you except "yourself". So what makes you think "marriage" can change someone? Isn't it a little too unrealistic, dreamy kind of picture? Points to ponder over..
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